While GR8DATE is built for genuine connection, it's important to be aware that scammers exist on every online platform. Their goal is to manipulate your emotions for financial gain. By learning their common tactics, you can protect yourself and focus on chatting with real, authentic people.
Red Flags: How to Spot a Scammer
They Profess Love or Strong Feelings Incredibly Fast
You've just matched, and within a few messages, they're calling you "soulmate" or saying they love you. This is called "love bombing" — a tactic to quickly build false intimacy and lower your guard. Genuine connections take time to develop.
Their Profile Seems Too Good to Be True
They are often exceptionally attractive, claiming to be models or military personnel stationed overseas. Their profiles may be vague with minimal personal details, and their photos can sometimes be found through a reverse image search on other websites or under different names.
They Always Have an Excuse to Avoid a Video Call
They'll be "having microphone problems," "their camera is broken," or "they're too shy." While some genuine people may be camera-shy, a consistent refusal to have a live video chat is a major warning sign.
Their Stories Are Full of Inconsistencies
Pay attention to the details. One day they work in engineering, the next it's oil and gas. They might forget details about their own family or background that they previously told you. Trust your instincts when something doesn't add up.
They Quickly Try to Move the Conversation Off GR8DATE
They will urgently ask you to move to WhatsApp, Telegram, or email. This is to get you away from the reporting and moderation safety nets of the dating platform. Stay on GR8DATE messaging for as long as possible.
The Inevitable Crisis and Request for Money
This is the endgame. The story will always lead to a financial emergency — a medical bill, a failed business deal, or urgent travel expenses to "come see you." They may even ask for gift cards.
⚠️ Under no circumstances should you ever send money or financial details to someone you have not met in person. Ever.
Poor Grammar and Generic Language
While not a definitive sign on its own, many scammers operate from non-English speaking countries. Be wary of profiles and messages filled with odd phrasing, spelling mistakes, or language that feels copied and pasted.
What to Do If You Suspect a Scammer
- Stop communicating immediately
- Do not send any money or personal information
- Report and block them on GR8DATE — use our reporting tools to help protect the entire community
Trust your instincts. If something feels wrong, it probably is. On GR8DATE, you have the freedom to connect with everyone — and that includes the freedom to disengage from anyone who makes you feel uncomfortable or suspicious.
Want to learn more about staying safe? Read our 10 essential online dating safety tips.